Zininzi iindidi zoxinzelelo njengoko kukho abantu, nangona oko kungathethi ukuba akukho zisombululo ziqhelekileyo kubo bonke. Apha uya kufumana imikhwa encinci yemihla ngemihla enceda ukulwa uxinzelelo Kwiimeko ezininzi.
Misela iinjongo ezinokufikeleleka. Iinjongo ezinkulu zinokuphela zikongamele kwaye zonyuse uxinzelelo lwakho. Qala ngokuzinyanga ngcono, ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Thatha ishawa, uzilungise, ulale iiyure ezisixhenxe, utye ukutya okunesondlo, wenze umthambo rhoqo ...
Yenza izinto ezikwenza ukuba wonwabe. Amaxesha ngamaxesha, xa umntu eqala ukudakumba, into yokuqala ethi shwaka kwimisebenzi yabo yemihla ngemihla zezi zinto zincinci zithandekayo, ezinokuthi zibe nefuthe kwindlela esivakalelwa ngayo.
Hleka. Ngokwezifundo ezininzi, ukuhleka liyeza elikhulu ukoyisa izifo zomzimba nezengqondo. Ungalokothi uphoswe lithuba lokuhleka, nokuba kukuhlekisa, ukudlala ihlaya okanye ukukhumbula ii-anecdotes ezihlekisayo nabantu obathandayo.
Yenza isiqhelo. Ukuba nesakhiwo esomeleleyo kulungile ukoyisa uxinzelelo, njengoko kusenza ubomi buqikeleleke kwaye kunceda yonke into ibe sengqiqweni. Ukudakumba kuhlala kungasebenzi kwiinkqubo zangaphambili. Asisaziva somelele ngokwaneleyo ukwenza into ebesiqhele ukuyenza. Akukho nto yenzekayo. Khawuleza ukuqala entsha, kubandakanya izinto ofuna ukuzenza, kwaye musa ukutsiba phantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko.
Phuma phandle ngokukhawuleza ngokungxamisekile. Ukuma komhlaba, ivumba kunye nezandi zendalo zinokwenza imimangaliso yomoya wethu, ukuphucula imeko kunye nokunyusa amanqanaba amandla.
Funda ukulawula ngcono uxinzelelo. Kuba sesinye sezizathu eziphambili zokudakumba, ukuthatha umphefumlo onzulu, iyoga okanye ukucamngca kuya kuyicacisa kakuhle indlela yokuphuma kwesi sigulo sengqondo.
Nxibelelana. Ukusebenzisana kwezentlalo kubaluleke kakhulu engqondweni kwaye abantu abadandathekileyo bahlala beyishiya xa esi sifo siqala ukuvuna intloko, ngamanye amaxesha ngokupheleleyo. Gcina ubuhlobo bakho kwaye wenze ezintsha.