Ukuba nabahlobo abalungileyo kuluncedo nakweyiphi na iminyaka, kuba kusigcina sisebenza emzimbeni nasengqondweni. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko usiya ukhula, obo buhlobo bungenza umahluko wokwenene. Ukususela kwiminyaka engamashumi amathandathu, ukuba nabahlobo kuphucula umgangatho wobomi zabantu.
Kwaye, ngokophando lwakutsha nje, imvakalelo yokuba lilolo ebangelwa kukungabinabahlobo kunokubangela uxinzelelo kunye nokuwohloka kwezinye izifo, kunyuse umngcipheko wokufa msinyane. Ukuhlalisana kuphucula imeko kwaye kuvuselele izakhono zokuqonda, ebenza bahlale besempilweni ebudaleni.
Ukuba uphumelele amashumi amathandathu kwaye ubuncinci umntu okuqondayo, onokumxelela nantoni na, unethamsanqa, kuba loo nto ilula, kodwa ebaluleke kakhulu yanele ukunceda ukunqanda ukudakumba okanye isifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo. Uphononongo olwenziwe eNetherlands lwagqiba ukuba abantu abadala abangamalolo banamathuba ayi-1,6 amathuba okuba bafumane isifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo.
Nangona kunjalo, iingcali zilumkisa ukuba ayilulo naluphi na uhlobo lomhlobo oluxabisekileyo, kodwa oko Ukuphindaphinda kubaluleke kakhulu. Ubuhlobo obuluncedo yinto apho sinika oko sikufumanayo, oko kukuthi, apho kukho ulungelelwaniso kwaye kungekho namnye wethu ozincama ngaphezulu komnye. Aba bantu babini kufuneka banikele igxalaba labo xa elinye liyidinga kwaye bathathe inyathelo ukugcina ubudlelwane, njengokufowuna kunye nokuphakamisa izicwangciso ukuthanda kwabo bobabini.