Wonke umntu ufuna ukuba njalo menya, ukanti kukho amaxesha apho kungekho sizathu sokubakho, okanye engakwaziyo ukufumana indlela. Kwaye ngaphandle kwento yokuba asisodwa kwaye sinabahlobo abakhulu, okanye nokuba liqabane elisincedayo, kunye nosapho olusincedayo xa kukho imfuneko, kukho into esisweleyo ebomini. Mhlawumbi kukuthula okanye esperanza. Kodwa kufanele ukuba kukhunjulwe ukuba awungekhe wonwabe ngaphandle kokubandezeleka ngaphambili, ukuba awukho kwimeko efanelekileyo okwangoku, kunokwenzeka ukuba iya kufezekiswa kungekudala.
Ungonwaba njani ngobomi obuphilayo? Ukuze uncumo lwethu luhlale ixesha elide, kufuneka sidibanise ezitsha kuloliwe wethu wemihla ngemihla imisebenzi ezisikhuthazayo. Ukuba iintsuku zigcwele yonke into ekuhlekisayo ebomini, akusayi kubakho sizathu sokuba uzibuze ukuba kutheni kungenjalo menya.
Imisebenzi yokonwaba
Enye yezona zinto ziphazamisayo midlalo. I-adrenaline yemidlalo egqithileyo ibuyisa imvakalelo ebilahlekile ebomini, kwaye ukuba ungumntu ozolileyo, zikho ezinye iindlela ezinokukunceda. Hamba, hamba ibhayisekile, run okanye ukujoyina indawo yokuzivocavoca kunokukugcina usebenza, into enokukunceda wonwabe.
Kungenzeka ukuba izibophelelo kukuminyanise kwaye kufuneka ulonwabele ixesha lakho lasimahla ukuze ukhuthazwe, kwaye ukuba kunjalo, kufanelekile ukuseka uluhlu lwazo zonke imisebenzi kukhethwa, ezinokukunceda ufezekise injongo oyifunayo. Ukuba uhamba ngefilimu, ungaya kwiimuvi kunye nabahlobo. Ungabhalisa kwinkomfa okanye kwizifundo zokufunda into ekudala ufuna ukuyazi, okanye uye kwi i konsathi. Ungatsalela umnxeba loo mhlobo ungakhange umbone ixesha elide, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufuna ukudibana nawe kwakhona.
Kukulungele ukumamela kancinci kwe umculo, ngakumbi umculo owuthandayo, kuba uphakamisa umoya. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba uhambe yonke imihla kwaye ungahlali ekhaya.
La lonwabo akuxhomekekanga kuwe kuphela. Akukho lula ukukhathazeka kakhulu ngenxa yeziphene onokuba unazo. Kukulungele ukucinga ukuba ikamva ligcwele iingcongconi kuhle, kwaye awunalo nofifi ngeziganeko ezintle ezisendleleni yakho.